介绍:
今天我将要讲述一些如何在说话时显得更有信心的技巧，我认为这适用于所有语言，不仅仅是英语。
我非常确定在中文中也有类似的技巧，但我在这里主要谈论的是关于英语的，特别是我经常犯的一些错误，因为这也是我需要改进的地方，以及一些普遍存在的错误。
因此，当你进行公开演讲时，你如何让自己听起来更有信心和专业性？首先要尝试减少口吃。我知道这是一项难以完成的任务，尤其是对于非母语英语人士。比如，当你在讲话时，如果你经常像这样说话，这就是口吃。尝试停止这样做，因为这会让你听起来不专业。这是你在讲话时应该避免的一件事，因为它经常会让你听起来像是不知所措。
所以，第一个建议就是减少口吃，这确实很难做到，我想只能通过多练习说话来达到。当你想口吃时，只需停下来，想想你接下来要说什么，因为当你这样做或者你在思考下一句要说什么时，你通常会这样做。而不是说"嗯"，你可以选择暂停，这实际上会让你听起来更有信心。
第二个技巧是避免过多的口头禅。口头禅就是在你可以用更少的词语表达你的观点时，说太多的词。当你在说话时，至少对我来说，很容易加入很多不必要的或者没有任何意义的词。过多的口头禅的例子就像这样，所以基本上我想说的是，你可以注意到，我刚才说的句子里有很多东西本可以被省略。例如"我想说的是"，"基本上"，"就像"，或者"所以"这样的词。我在录音和正常对话时经常使用这些词，我想这也是我需要改进的地方，但当你的英语变得更流利时，你可能会发现自己在想下一句话时会做出这样的事，可能并没有意识到，但这确实是很多人都会做的事情，这绝对是不对的。还有一些我在说话时常常不确定要说的词，比如"基本上"，"技术上"，"实际上"或者"类似的词"。有时人们会在他们正在说的句子中加入这些词，实际上这些词并没有真正的含义，所以这些也是你想要避免的词。
最后一件你需要避免的事情就是要听起来更有信心。比如，如果你要做一次英语演讲，在你开始之前，你不想开始对你的内容进行免责声明，你不想说，好的，对不起，大家，这可能有些不清楚，或者，对不起，我可能没有很清楚地描述这个，所以，你就直接告诉你的听众，你并不自信，这就是你通过这样的话传达出的信息。所以，尤其是在做演讲时，你需要避免做这样的事，因为这也会降低你的听众对你演讲的信心。这可能会导致他们在演讲期间开始走神，诸如此类的事情。
所以，这些都是帮助你在讲话时显得更有信心的非常有价值的技巧，就像其他所有事情一样，随着练习的增加，这些事情会变得更容易。
Today I'm going to talk about some tips on how to sound more confident when you're speaking and I think this applies to every language not just English。
I'm pretty sure in Chinese there are similar like tips as well but I'm here to talk about like specifically for English some of the mistakes that I make frequently because this is something that I also have to work on and also just some common mistakes in general。
So and this is when you're public speaking so not necessarily when're writing but just when you're speaking how do you sound more confident and more professional so the first thing is to try to stutter less so I know this one is kind of a hard one To Be actively trying to do so it's hard to just make yourself sort less and I think this is one thing that I also struggle with like for example when you're talking if you're frequently going like or like that's called stuttering and I know it's something that I frequently do and I'm trying to just stop doing that because it's makes you sound unprofessional but this is one thing that you want to avoid doing when you're talking because it often makes you sound like you don't know what you're doing。
So that's the first tip which is to stutter less and it's really hard to do I guess just practice speaking more and when you want to stutter just take a pause and think about what you want to say next because often when you're going like or you're sort of thinking about what you what you have to say next and instead of going like um you can just go for a pause and that actually makes you sound more confident。
And the second tip is to avoid being to verbals so being verbals is。
Saying too many words when you can express what you're saying in a shorter amount of words so when you're speaking it's easy at least for me to just fit in a lot of words that are necessary or don't actually mean anything so an example of being two verbbos。
Is like this so basically what I'm trying to say is blah blah blah and so you can notice in just in the sentence I just said there'is a lot of things that。
Could have been eliminated for example what I'm trying to say is or basically or like or so words like these I actually use these words a lot when I'm recording and just a normal conversation and I guess this is also something I have to work on but as you become more fluent in English you might find yourself doing something like this when you're trying to think of what you say next and you're maybe unaware of this but it is something that。
A lot of people this is something that a lot of people do and it's DeFinitely not correct some other words that are also quite verbbot that I often sort of incertain when I'm trying to speak is words like basically or technical or actually or stuff like that sometimes people just put them inside the sentences they're seeing when they actually don't really mean anything so these are also words that you want to avoid。
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