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Hello, class of 2015. I am so honored to be here today. Dean Khurana , parents , and most especially graduating students. Thank you so much for inviting me. The Senior Class Committee, It’s genuinely one of the most exciting things I’ve ever been asked to do.
I have to admit primarily because I can’t deny it, as it was leaked in the WiKiLeaks release of the Sony hack that when I was invited I replied and I directly quote my own email “Wow ! This is so nice! I’m gonna need some funny ghost writers. Any ideas ?”
This initial response now blessedly public was from the knowledge that at my class day were lucky enough to have Will Ferrel as class day speaker and that many of us were hung-over, or even freshly high, mainly wanted to laugh.
So I have to admit that today, even 12 years after graduation, I’m still insecure about my own worthiness. I have to remind myself today you’re here for a reason. Today I feel much like I did when I came to Harvard Yard as a freshman in 1999. When you guys were, to my continued shock and horror, still in kindergarten. I feel like there had been some mistake that I wasn’t smart enough to be in this company and that every time I opened my mouth I would have to prove that I wasn’t just a dumb actress. So I start with an apology. This won’t be very funny. I’m not a comedian. And I didn’t get a ghost writer. But I am here to tell you today Harvard is giving you all diplomas tomorrow. You are here for a reason.
Sometimes your insecurities and your inexperience may lead you, too, to embrace other people’s expectations, standards, or values. But you can harness that inexperience to carve out your own path. one that is free of the burden of knowing how things are supposed to be a path that is defined by its own particular set of reasons.
The other day I went to an amusement park with my soon-to-be 4 year-old son. And I watched him play arcade games. He was incredibly focused, throwing his ball at the target. Jewish mother that I am, I skipped 20 steps and was already imagining him as a major league player with what is his aim and his arm and his concentration. But then I realized what he wand. He was playing to trade in his tickets for the crappy plastic toys. The prize was much more exciting than the game to get it. I of course wanted to urge him to take joy and the challenge f the game, the improvement upon practice the satisfaction of doing something well and even feeling the accomplishment when achieving the game’s goals. But all of these aspects were shaded by the little 10 cent plastic men with sticky stretchy blue arms that adhere to the walls. Thati-that was the prize.
In a child’s nature, we see many of our innate tendencies. I saw myself in him and perhaps you do too Prizes serve as false idols everywhere, Prestige, wealth, fame, power, You’ll be exposed to many of these, if not all. Of course, part of why I was invited to come to speak today beyond my being a proud alumna is thatI.ve recruited some very coveted toys in my life，including a not so plastic, not so crappy one： an Oscar。So we bump up against the common troll I think of the commencement address people who have achieved a lot telling you that the fruits of the achievement are not always to be trusted. But I think that contradiction can be reconciled and is in fact instructive .Achievement is wonderful when you know why you’re doing it. And when you don’t know, it can be a terrible trap.
I went to a public school on Long Island, Syosset High School。The girls I went to school with hand Prada bags and flat-ironed hair. And they spoke with an accent I who had moved there at age 9 from Connecticut mimicked to fit in. Florida Oranges Chocolate cherries . Since I’m ancient and the Internet was just starting when I was in high school. People didn’t really pay that much of attention to the fact that I was an actress. I was known mainly at school for having a back pack bigger than I was and always having while-out on my hands because I hated seeing anything crossed out in my notes books. I was voted for my senior-yearbook I most likely to be an contestant on Jeopardy or code for nerdiest。
When I got to Harvard just after the release of Star Wars: Episode I。I knew I would be starting over in terms of how people viewed me. I feared people would have assumed I’d gotten in just for being famous, and that they would think I was not worthy of the intellectual rigor here . And it would not have been far from the truth. When I came here I had never written a 10-page paper before. I‘m not even sure I’ve written a 5-page paper. I was alarmed and intimidated by the calm eyes of a fellow student who came here from Dalton or Exeter who thought that compared to high school the workload here was easy. I was completely overwhelmed and thought that reading 1,000 pages a week was unimaginable that writing a 50-page thesis is just something I could never do. I had no idea how to declare my intentions. I couldn’t even articulate them to myself.
I had been acting since I was 11 but I thought that acting was too frivolous and certainly not meaningful. I came from a family of academics and was very concerned with being taken seriously. In contrast to my inability to declare myself on my first day of orientation freshman year five separate students introduced themselves to me by saying, “ I’m going to be president，Remember I told you that “ Their names, for the record ,were Bernie Sanders, Marco Rubio ,Ted Cruz，Barack Obama, and Hilary Clinton。
In all seriousness, I believed every one of them. Their bearing and self-confidence alone seemed proof of their prophecy where I couldn’t shake myself-doubt.
I got in only because I was famous. This was how others saw me and it was how I saw myself. Driven by these insecurities I decided I was going to find something to do in Harvard that was serious and meaningful that would change the world and make it a better place.
At the age of 18, I’d already been acting for 7years and assumed I find a more serious and profound path in college. So freshman fall I decided to make neurobiology and advanced modern Hebrew Literature because I was serious and intellectual. Needless to say, I should have failed both. I got Bs, for your information, and to this day every Sunday I burn a small effigy to the pagan Gods of grade inflation. But as I was fighting my way through Aleph Bet YodY’shua in Hebrew and the different mechanisms of neuro-response. I saw friends around me writing papers on sailing and pop culture magazines and professors teaching classes on fairy tales and The Matrix. I realized that seriousness for seriousness’s sake was its own kind of trophy ,and a dubious one，a pose I sought to counter some half-imagined argument about who I was.
There was a reason that I was an actor. I love what I do. And I saw from my peers and my mentors that it was not only an acceptable reason, it was the best reason. When I got to mygraduation, sitting where you sit today after 4years of trying to get excited about something else I admitted to myself that I couldn’t wait to do back and make more films. I wanted to tell stories, to imagine the lives of others and help others do the same. I have found or perhaps reclaimed my season. You have a prize now or at least you will tomorrow。The prize is a Harvard degree in your hand . But what is your reason behind it ?
My Harvard degree represents, for me, the curiosity and invention that were encouraged here, the friendships I’ve sustained，the way Professor Graham told me not to describe the way light hit a flower, but rather the shadow the flower cast, the way Professor Scarry talked about theatre is a transformative religious force how professor Coslin showed how much our visual cortex is activated just by imagining. Now granted these things don’t necessarily help me answer the most common question I’m asked: What designer are you wearing? What’s your fitness regime? Any makeup tips?
But I have never since been embarrassed to myself as what I might previously have thought was a stupid question. My Harvard degree and other awards are emblems of the experiences which led me to them.
The wood paneled lecture halls, he colorful fall leaves, the hot vanilla Toscaninis，reading great novels in overstuffed library chairs, running trough dining halls screaming：Ooh! AH! City steps! City steps! City steps! City steps! It’s easy now to romanticize my time here. But I had some very difficult times here too.
Some combination of being 19, dealing with my first heartbreak, taking birth control pills that have since been taken off the market for their depressive side effects and spending too much time missing daylight during winter months led me to some pretty dark moments ，particularly during sophomore year. There were several occasions where I started crying in meetings with professors, overwhelmed with what I was supposed to pull off when I could barely get myself out of bed in the morning .Moments when I took on the motto for my school work：Done. Not good. If only I could finish my work, even if it took eating a jumbo pack of sour Path Kids to get me through a single 10-page paper. I felt that I’ve accomplished a great feat. I repeat to myself: Done. Not good.
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