钱与情，钱与人，钱与命！（杨陌颂读）

记住了， 别伤了你缺钱时帮助你的人 ！ 借钱，那滋味真的很痛…… 无利息借给你的不是钱， 而是信任，是鼓励… A few days ago, I took an ancient literature class. The ancient literature teacher said an ' interesting' thing in class. This year, 177 freshmen volunteered to fill in Chinese language and literature, leaving 75 behind. This is indeed an interesting thing. Because two years ago, in our term, the first volunteer was only more than 20 people in Chinese language and literature, and many of them wanted to transfer to other departments and colleges at the beginning of the term. The teacher casually asked us why and did not ask for an answer. Only two words flashed through my mind at that time: loneliness. 　　 When the real world cannot give us the warmth we want, we will unconsciously want to find spiritual comfort. Literature is such a wonderful thing. It can make your spiritual world no longer empty, comfort your soul, and give you a languid leisure when you are depressed and helpless. 　　 I have heard many parents say that reading is a very easy thing and working is really hard. Reading is indeed a relaxed and happy thing. However, when this relaxed and happy thing carries too much expectation, comparison and pressure, then it is no longer relaxed and happiness is no longer happiness. 　　 Most children are lonely now. Some children are left behind and have no parents to accompany them since childhood. In his childhood, his parents were absent, as were love. In fact, it is very difficult for such a child to love others deeply, because he does not know what love is and how to love others. Most of these families are not rich. We can't blame the parents of such a family. reality forces them to do nothing. It's just that you got the money, but you lost the affection. 　　 There are also some middle-and upper-class families whose children are still lonely. Parents place too much expectation on their children, causing unspeakable pressure on them. Once upon a time, I met a girl, eleven years old, in grade three of primary school. Apart from the necessary courses in the school, she has to learn taekwondo, ballet, violin, piano, French, Korean, weiqi, calligraphy and painting ... but an 11 - year - old child, she is not a god, she is just a child who needs love and care. Most of these children are physically and mentally exhausted and their hearts are exhausted. However, parents also lost the opportunity to communicate with their children because their children are attending cram schools all the time, which only makes two hearts grow fonder and farther away. ( Original Contributor www.sanwen.com from prose net, China ) 　　 As for those families whose family circumstances are extremely rich and can live a few days without food and clothing, the children are still lonely. As the saying goes, if you want to take a crown, you must bear its weight. The greed and desire of human nature are endless. If you want to earn more, you have to pay more. If you devote more time and energy to your career, you will naturally lose the happiness and warmth of being with your family. 　　 Therefore, most children nowadays are lonely and selfish. Because they do not understand love, or love is absent when they need it most. Therefore, they use their own way to protect themselves, use selfishness to safeguard their own interests, and use castles to surround the walls of their hearts. The people inside dare not come out, and the people outside will never get in. 　　 When children's world becomes a single color, they will unconsciously seek another way to add some color and company to their world. 　　 Not that children are willing to indulge in online games, but that their hearts are too lonely. They need something to waste time and forget loneliness for a while. 　　 Not that children are willing to make friends with so-called netizens on the Internet, but that their parents have not taken them out to have real diplomacy with the real world. 　　 It's not that children don't want to open their hearts to their parents, but that since long ago, they have been left far behind by their parents, alone, happy and sad. 　　 When the amount of money in the bank account keeps rising, when you are in the business, when you are standing at the top of the times and looking down at the masses, you may not find a small figure behind you looking at you with his innocent eyes. As time goes by, his eyes gradually become numb. 　　 The rise of Sinology is a national honor and a cultural honor. However, it is also the product of more and more young loneliness, and is the light sadness of those little people. نافذة قو، ليلة رائع، صب في شادي، على الرغم من رائعة، لكن من الصعب تغطية مدينة تعب. ربما الضوضاء خلال النهار والنابضة بالحياة، بعد يوم من الهسهسة، هادئة تدريجيا إلى أسفل. تدفق الهواء لم يعد لا يهدأ، فقط الباردة والهادئة، حداد ومي، تحتاج إلى الارتياح. السماء، بلده صغيرة، ليلة السوق بذلك، كيف يمكن الناس الاستثناء. حتى في هذه ليلة، جلست أمام جهاز الكمبيوتر، ومن ناحية التحرك، وصوت اثيري, عقص. الاستماع بعناية ومثل نضارة في ضوء القمر تتدفق بهدوء، ومثل الفاتيكان تشبه الصوت في الجبال المعبد القديم في ضرب هادئة، أكثر على امرأة قديمة في الستار خدر نفخة حنون، التجربة، مثيرة للاهتمام. ومع مرور الوقت، رشقات الرياح من النافذة، التي لا ترتعش الدب، بيت الموسيقى ضبابي وواضحة وميسرة حول القلب. فالليل أكثر وحيدا، القلب أكثر ثابتة، ممهدة طيات الأمور مؤقتاً. ولكن تحت هذه الطريقة العقلية، فإنه ليس وقت المناسب بالنسبة لي أن يكون انتعاش الأخيرة. منذ أول أيام العام الجديد، هو يبتعد في الوقت، ولكن أنا كسول تدريجيا. تحدث منطقياً، الانضباط الذاتي للي، ينبغي أن لا توجد ظاهرة الكسل. أوقات الفراغ أحياناً 'تشينغ هوان'، يمكن فقط اندفاع مؤقتة لنقل فقط، نتيجة لفترة طويلة لضبط، كل شخص كسول مضاعف. ثم، في نهاية عمل تراكم الأعمال المنزلية، الإنسان يتعلق بالعلاقات، التدريب على المهارات اللازمة، وهذه أكثر جعل القلب أسوأ. وكان القلب مثل الندى صباح اليوم، الآن مثل الغبار اللؤلؤ. 现在的人都怕： 站着借钱，跪着要债。 钱， 借出去时是感情， 收回来时是仇人！ 这年头， 你手头紧的时候，什么最难？ 借钱最难！ 肯借钱给你的人， 一定是你的贵人； 如今，这样的贵人不多， 遇到了，必须珍惜一辈子。 记住了， 别伤了你缺钱时帮助你的人 ！ 借钱，那滋味真的很痛…… 无利息借给你的不是钱， 而是信任，是鼓励… 现在的人都怕： 站着借钱，跪着要债。 钱， 借出去时是感情， 收回来时是仇人！ 这年头， 你手头紧的时候，什么最难？ 借钱最难！ 肯借钱给你的人， 一定是你的贵人； 如今，这样的贵人不多， 遇到了，必须珍惜一辈子。 因为钱花不了一辈子！ 帮助你的人，目的只有一个， 那就是希望你能过的更好！！ 去珍惜那个舍得给你花钱的人， 不管这个人是亲人， 爱人还是蓝颜红颜，或者朋友， 因为钱对于谁来说， 都是不够花的…… 舍得给你花钱的人， 不是因为钱多， 也不是因为他傻， 而是那一刻他觉得你比钱重要