当你不再对抗焦虑,而是尝试与它和解...

当你不再对抗焦虑,而是尝试与它和解...

2024-10-06    11'44''

主播: 一席英语

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♬主播:Flora(中国)+Erin(美国) ♬歌曲:Out There [图片] 01. Sources and Manifestation of Anxiety 焦虑的来源和表现 Anxiety can come from all kinds of sources. Relationships, work, school, and just navigating(驾驭)life can all contribute. It’s not uncommon to feel like we’re constantly juggling too much at once(我们经常会觉得自己要同时处理太多事情). [图片] But anxiety isn’t just about what's going on around us; it affects us in various ways. We might feel physical symptoms(身体上的症状)—like a racing heart(心跳加速)or tension(紧张)—or find ourselves stuck in cycles of worry(陷入了一个无限担忧的循环中). [图片] 02. The Right Mindset 正确的心态 It’s important to recognize that these sources are part of being human, not something we need to completely eliminate. But, how we react to them makes a huge difference. Floracan relate to that on a personal level. There was a time when shetried to tackle heranxiety head-on, thinking that if shejust fought it hard enough, it would go away.But then sherealized that the more sheresisted heranxiety, the stronger itseemed to become. [图片] Eventually, shelearned to acknowledge herfeelings instead of battling them(承认自己的感受而不是压抑).She thinks this is a very important mindset for us to have when dealing with anxiety. 03. How to Manage Anxiety Effectively?如何有效管理焦虑? (1) Cognitive Restructuring(认知重组) To manage anxiety, one key approach is challenging our thoughts. 其实很多时候我们的认知或者想法和事实是有很大差距的。With a little bit of reasoning (稍做推理), you may find that the truth is actually far from what you thought. 进行认知重组的时候可以问自己一些问题:Is my worry logical(我的担心是符合逻辑的吗)? What’s the evidence behind it? 总之就是不要让你的emotion占据自己的大脑。 You might find that a lot of what you’re anxious about is unlikely to happen, or that you’re exaggerating the problem in your mind. [图片] (2) Journaling(写日记) Writing things down helps make the problem feel more concrete and manageable(更加具体和易于管理). When you put your thoughts on paper, it’s easier to break them down and find a solution. [图片] (3) Brainstorming Solutions(头脑风暴解决方案) When faced with a problem, listing out as many solutions as you can (尽可能多地列出解决方法) is a helpful way to ease anxiety(缓解焦虑). It reduces that feeling of uncertainty and helps you regain a sense of control(找回掌控感). 这个其实是可以刻意练习的。You might feel a bit lost at first, but once you open your mind (打开思路), you'll find that there are at least three solutions to your problem (一个问题至少有三种解决方法). It also calms your mind and helps it think of something else. [图片] 04. Classification of Anxiety (焦虑的分类) (1) Acute Anxiety(急性焦虑) Sometimes, we have acute anxiety, which comes on suddenly, like before a big presentation (一场大型演讲之前). 此外,在日常生活中大家轮流发言交流自己的想法的时候也有可能产生acute anxiety。 在这种情况出现时,deep breathing(深呼吸)or distracting yourself for a short period(短暂地分散一下注意力)都是比较有效的。 [图片] 如果大家想要直接从源头上减少acute anxiety的话,Flora的建议是:Create more opportunities for yourself to deal with acute anxiety (多给自己创造一些能去应对急性焦虑的机会). 次数累积到一定程度之后,你可能就会惊喜地发现你没有之前那么紧张和焦虑了。 In fact, this method could takea lot of courage in the beginning. But when you actually take that step, you'll realize it's not that hard. Itislike exposure therapy(暴露疗法).The more you do it, the less scary it is. (2) Chronic Anxiety(慢性焦虑) Chronic anxiety is probably more likely to bother us, and we often have a hard time dealing with it. If it’s chronic anxiety, where the feelings build up over time(随着时间的推移而积累), it’s important to approach it differently. First, adjust your mindset (调整心态). [图片] 其实anxiety是大脑对我们的一种保护。When we feel anxious, it's our brain reminding us to react ahead of time to unknown dangers (提醒我们提前对未知的危险做出反应) so we can better protect ourselves. Whether we are humans or other animals, when faced with a threat we either choose to run or fight. Either choice requires our bodies to function at maximum capacity (都需要我们的身体发挥最大功能) to protect us from harm. 自古以来都是这样的。产生焦虑并不是错误,而且是我们身体的一种protective mechanism(保护机制)。 After realizing this, you can consistently do things that boost your mood. It could be exercising, connecting with loved ones, or taking breaks during stressful moments.