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CHOOSE YOUR ROLE MODELS WITH CARE
There is nothing wrong with being thoughtful and concerned about the feelings and reactions of others toward you and your choices. What is silly and self-defeating however, is for you to allow yourself to be inordinately influenced by the fleeting opinions of people whose regard and respect is of no concern or value to you. If you’ve been raised with destructive criticism, you can easily slip into the trap of organizing your life around trying to gain the approval, or escape the disapproval of people you don’t even know or care about.
When you select admirable people to look up to, you actually connect at an unconscious level with a higher power that will then give you guidance and insight. You will experience a deep inner knowing of exactly the right thing to do or say.
