介绍:
Frequently, when we dislike qualities in other people, ironically, it’s usually the mirror that’s speaking to us.
I began questioning myself further each time I encountered someone that I didn’t particularlylike. Each time, I asked myself,“What is it about that person that I don’t like?” and then “Is there something similar in me?” in every instance, I could see a piece of that quality in me, and sometimes I had to really get very introspective. So what did that mean?
通常当我们讨厌别人身上的某些特质时，那就说明你其实讨厌自己身上相类似的特质。
每次，当我遇到不太喜欢的人时，我就开始进一步质问自己。我会扪心自问：“我不喜欢那个人的哪些方面？”然后还会问：“我是不是有和他相似的地方？”每次，我都能在自己身上看到一些令我厌恶的特质。我有时不得不深刻地反省自己。那这意味着什么呢？
It means that just as I can get annoyed or disturbed when I notice that aspect in someone else, I better reexamine my qualities and consider making some changes. Even if I’m not willingto make a drastic change, at least I consider how I might modify some of the things that I’m doing.
这意味着，就像我会对其他人身上令我厌恶的特质感到恼怒或不安一样，我应该更好地重新审视自己的特质，并考虑做一些改变。即使我不想做大的改变，至少我会考虑该如何修正自己正在做的一些事情。
don’t [dont]
Don’t do it.
ironically [aɪ'rɑnɪkli]讽刺地
Ironically， it turns out that the betrayer is his best friend.
讽刺的是，背叛者是最好的朋友。
encounter [ɪn'kaʊntɚ] 邂逅
I encountered my other part while I was traveling.
particularly [pɚ'tɪkjəlɚli] 特别地， 尤其地
Parents should particularly care for the kids’ mental health.
父母应该尤其关心孩子的心理健康。
modify ['mɑdɪfaɪ] vi/vt 修改， 修正
We’ll keep modifying the proposal until every member adopts it.
我们会持续修改方案知道每位成员都通过。
introspective ['ɪntrə'spɛktɪv] adj 内省的， 反省的
Once we get introspective, we can better modify ourselves.
一旦我们知道反省， 我们才可以更好地修正自己。
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