A Drop of Honey友善【Everyday Beautiful English】

卡耐基先生关于待人友善的佳文：A Drop of Honey. Begin in a friendly way. If a man’s heart is rankling with discord and ill feeling toward you, you can’t win him to your way of thinking with all the logic in Christendom. Scolding parents and domineering bosses and husbands and nagging wives ought to realize that people don’t want to change their minds. They can’t be forced or driven to agree with you or me. But they may possibly be led to, if we are gentle and friendly, ever so gently and ever so friendly. The sun can make you take off your coat more quickly than the wind; and kindliness, the friendly approach and appreciation can make people change their minds more readily than all the bluster and storming in the world. Remember what Lincoln said:”A drop of honey catches more flies than a gallon of gall. 友善如蜜——以友好的方式开始与人交往。