6.12First Love❤️

The first love is one that is really hard to forget. They live in your heart forever because those feelings are still lingering. Sometimes that first love can be so intense and it can result in such a fantasy of it lasting forever that people can continue to sort of harbor that fantasy long after the rational realism of their lives has shown that it’s not going to ever be true. Most of us have been (in) that moment where you know someone isn’t right for you and you just keep going back and so that’s literally one of those scenarios where you have to cold-turkey that relationship. This is somebody that you can’t have contact with, you can’t see them, you probably can’t even be on social media with them, because they pull you in almost like an addiction, and so the only way to manage it is to get away. I think when that situation exists, it’s a situation that requires a lot of maturity, because it requires the people to look at each other and say, “As attracted as I am to you, as exhilarated as I might be to be with you, we’re not good for each other.” And they’ve got to use their heads more than their hearts in that situation. 初恋真的很难忘掉。它们会永远扎根在你的心里，因为那些感觉仍一直萦绕在你的心头。 有时候初恋是如此强烈，能够致使人们产生一种初恋会持续到永远的幻想，以至于即使人生的理性现实已经表明这不会是真的，在此之后很久人们依旧会继续持有这种幻想。 我们大多数人有过这样的时刻——你明知道某个人不适合你，但你却止不住回忆过去，这就是必须要抛却这一情感关系的局面之一。这个人你不能与之联系，不能与之相见，不能在社交媒体上有联系，因为他们会像毒瘾一样控制住你。所以唯一的处理办法就是远离。 我认为当这种情况出现时，会需要心智的极度成熟，因为这会需要人们看向彼此说，“尽管我对你异常痴迷，尽管跟你在一起我也许会心花怒放，但是我们不适合彼此。”在这种场合，他们必须要理性战胜感性。