介绍:
情生惑，惑成书
版块介绍
这个板块的文章来自the Boston Globe的专栏记者Meredith Goldstein运营的网站loveletters.boston.com。网站上的文章都是读者给Meredith发来的信件，询问一些我们平时都可能遇到的情感问题，网友会在上面评论留言，Meredith也会给出自己的建议，给许多困惑中的读者带来帮助。
在我看来，这些文章都是相当棒的英语阅读材料，文字浅显易懂又贴近生活，也会有许多地道的用语表达，同时也提供了很好的讨论的素材。我会将文字贴出，朗读，并且稍作解释，大家看完之后，也欢迎给我留言。
本期问题：He can't help looking at other women...
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情·书 - 第6期 他总是盯着别的女生看...
It's not the worst thing to notice attractive people (within reason). Some people do have that instinct. It doesn't mean that they don't appreciate and desire the person right in front of them. It doesn't mean that they long for someone else.
Your boyfriend's behavior is bothering you, I would guess, because your relationship is lacking in other ways. You're looking for answers, which is why every little thing he does – and looks at – means more than it should. You say, "I feel like I've spent all this time trying to uncover another side of him, but I can't get to it." That's the real problem.
You didn't write anything about what you love about this man, or why the relationship was great before the drift. It's time to think about that, and whether you're still enjoying the things that brought you together in the first place. If most of your relationship is spent wishing for more, it might be time to do some looking of your own.
- Meredith
Readers? What about the looking?
致敬作者
原文地址：
https://loveletters.boston.com/2017/03/cant-help-looking-women.html
这个问题，你怎么看
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