情·书 第7期 ”六年的朋友,该去追求么“的回复

情·书 第7期 ”六年的朋友,该去追求么“的回复

2017-03-30    08'46''

主播: 粗只的大叶

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介绍:
版块介绍 这个板块的文章来自the Boston Globe的专栏记者Meredith Goldstein运营的网站loveletters.boston.com。网站上的文章都是读者给Meredith发来的信件,询问一些我们平时都可能遇到的情感问题,网友会在上面评论留言,Meredith也会给出自己的建议,给许多困惑中的读者带来帮助。 在我看来,这些文章都是相当棒的英语阅读材料,文字浅显易懂又贴近生活,也会有许多地道的用语表达,同时也提供了很好的讨论的素材。我会将文字贴出,朗读,并且稍作解释,大家看完之后,也欢迎给我留言。 本期问题:Is it time to make my move... 如果你是第一次看到我的推送或者错过了之前的问题,可以点击: 你也可以点击推送左下角“阅读原文”,可以看到上一期的问题。 中间六边形分割线 ▾ 点击收听 ▾ 8:46 情·书 7A 来自叶希聪 We get a lot of letters from people whose casual friend crushes turn into extended periods of unrequited pining. They avoid disclosing their feelings, sometimes for months (or years), and by the time they're ready to ask questions, the answers mean too much. That's why I like to advise letter writers to have these talks sooner than later. Why wait? Tell your friend that you're wondering whether there's more to your relationship. Let him know you're into the idea, even though you have questions and concerns. The worst-case scenario is that he says no, and if he does, at least you'll feel better about moving on. Please don't worry about the friend group issue and potential awkwardness, by the way. No matter what happens – whether he leans in for a kiss or leans back to set a boundary – he should want to preserve the group dynamic. Six years is a long time for both of you. This one conversation won't define your entire relationship. – Meredith 致敬作者 原文地址: https://loveletters.boston.com/2017/03/time-make-move.html 这个问题,你怎么看 敬请留言 看完读者的问题和Meredith回答,不知道您是否愿意分享自己的想法。你会怎么解决困境,又会有怎样的建议呢?希望您可以直接在留言板留言,也可以扫描二维码加入我的小小的粉丝群,用语音和其他粉丝一起交流,英语或者中文都可以。表达也是一种练习哦~