情·书 第八期 “我该如何找到约会的动力”的回复

情生惑，惑成书 版块介绍 这个板块的文章来自the Boston Globe的专栏记者Meredith Goldstein运营的网站loveletters.boston.com。网站上的文章都是读者给Meredith发来的信件，询问一些我们平时都可能遇到的情感问题，网友会在上面评论留言，Meredith也会给出自己的建议，给许多困惑中的读者带来帮助。 在我看来，这些文章都是相当棒的英语阅读材料，文字浅显易懂又贴近生活，也会有许多地道的用语表达，同时也提供了很好的讨论的素材。我会将文字贴出，朗读，并且稍作解释，大家看完之后，也欢迎给我留言。 本期问题：How do I find the motivation to date... 如果你是第一次看到我的推送或者错过了之前的问题，可以点击： 情·书 第8期 我该怎么找到约会的动力呢？ 你也可以点击推送左下角“阅读原文”，可以看到上一期的问题。 中间六边形分割线 ▾ 点击收听 ▾ 12:30 情·书 8A 来自叶希聪 You seem to want the pep talk to end all pep talks, but I won't lie to you. Dating can be exhausting, and once you meet someone you like, it's possible that heartbreak will follow. My advice is to set a small goal – maybe one date over the next two months. Tell your friends that you're open to setups. Scroll through some dating apps looking for just one person you'd like to take for coffee. Also, try to reframe this issue – or call it something else. "Getting back out there" is an overwhelming concept (I get exhausted just typing it). Instead of thinking of this as a reentry – like you'll be walking into yet another round of the Hunger Games – accept the fact that you've been out there this whole time. You've been in the world, considering your options. You've been at risk of meeting someone and falling in love whether you've known it or not. – Meredith Readers? Can you give this LW a pep talk? 致敬作者 原文地址： https://loveletters.boston.com/2017/03/find-motivation-date.html 这个问题，你怎么看 敬请留言 看完读者的问题和Meredith回答，不知道您是否愿意分享自己的想法。你会怎么解决困境，又会有怎样的建议呢？希望您可以直接在留言板留言，也可以扫描二维码加入我的小小的粉丝群，用语音和其他粉丝一起交流，英语或者中文都可以。表达也是一种练习哦~ 点击【阅读原文】 查阅上期推送