里昂夜读290-你值得更好的

《愿你爱的，是值得你爱的人》 里昂导言： 大家好，欢迎收听今天的里昂夜读，我是里昂。 爱一个人，会卑微到尘埃里，哪怕对方只给予你一点好，你都觉得你拥有了全世界。而当对方伤害了你，你怀疑的却是自己：是不是我配不上Ta？是不是我不够好？ 我想起在电影《壁花少年》中有一句话，We accept the love we think we deserve. 我们选择去接受我们认为配得起的爱。 在这个世界上，没有人能帮你成为更好的自己，没有人能替你去做选择，唯有你自己才是最好的解药。上天没给你想要的，不是你不配，而是你值得更好的。 You Deserve So Much More 你本值得更多 I know you really like him. 我知道你真的很喜欢他。 I see the way you look at him when you thought no one else was looking. He’s different, you say. For whatever reasons they are, one look into his dark, mesmerizing eyes and you are lost. When he flashes you his irresistible smile, you feel like your life is complete. When he gives you the time of day, you realize in the back of your mind how you would give anything to be with him. 你以为没人注意着，我却看到了你看他的方式。你说，他不一样。无论有什么样的理由，当你看向他深邃的眼睛，你就迷失了方向。当他露出让人无法抗拒的微笑，你感到你的人生因他而完整。当他为你抽出了一点时间，你意识到你愿意付出任何代价和他在一起。 Even if it’s a fleeting feeling, temporary company, or a story that is not meant to be. 即使这只是转瞬即逝的感觉，只是短暂的陪伴，或者只是一个无意的故事。 I know you’re hoping for a different outcome and you don’t want to have any regrets. I know you’re strong enough to walk through high fire and freezing hell. I know you’re worthy of love and you deserve a love who wants you for who you are. 我知道你希冀着不同结局，你不想有任何遗憾；我知道你足够强大，穿越熊熊大火和冰冷地狱。我知道你值得被爱，只因你本来的样子。 I know. 我都知道。 I just wish you know you’re worth so much more than that. I wish you could see your beauty, your goodness, and your strength that are some of the things I admire about you. I wish you can believe me when I tell you, you deserve better. 我只是希望你知道，你的价值远不止于此；我希望你能知晓自己的美丽，你的善良，你的力量和你让我仰慕你的一切；我希望你能相信我，在我告知你“你值得更好的”的时候。 You deserve more than an “almost” and someone who you have to fight so hard for. You deserve more than what you’re going through now and an ambiguous relationship that tears you from the inside. You deserve more than uncertainty and grey area that makes you feel inferior to your own feeling.  你值得更好的，而不是一个 “差不多”就让你为之拼命的人，不是一段让你如此煎熬、不断撕扯你内心的模糊关系，更不是一个让你觉得自己低人一等的、充满不确定性的灰色地带。 You deserve someone who looks at you and just knows that you’re the one for him. Someone who loves you deeply without holding anything back. Someone who knows you deserve the world and gives you the best of him. 你值得一个只注视着你并把你当做唯一的人，一个深深地爱恋着你对你毫无保留的人，一个认为你值得全世界并给予你最好的人。 Because you do. 因为你值得。 结束语： 你有没有卑微地爱过一个人？ 有没有为了爱做过很蠢的事？ 如今的你， 是否拥有了更好的选择？ 把你的故事， 说给我听吧。 （不读出来） 摘要：王小波：一想到你，我这张丑脸就泛起微笑。