If I ask you, what do you want out of life, and you say something like, I want to be happy and have a great family and a job I like, it's so ubiquitous that it doesn't even mean anything.
如果我问你,在人生中,你想收获什么,你跟我说,我想要幸福,我想要可爱的家庭,我想要我喜欢的工作,这样的回答是很宽泛的,甚至是没有意义的。
A more interesting question, a question that perhaps you've never considered before, is what pain do you want in your life? What are you willing to struggle for? Because that seems to be a greater determinant of how our lives turn out.
现在,我要问你一个更有意思的问题,你可能从来都没有思考过它。那就是,在人生中,你想经历什么样的痛苦?你愿意为什么而奋斗?因为,似乎这才是人生的决定因素。