我们花了好多钱,修饰我们自己。但是,却吝啬去修饰我们说出的话。想想有多久,我们没有对身边的人,发自内心的表达我们的赞美了。当然,赞美区别与谄媚,因为赞美是无目的,就是想没事儿夸夸你,让你开心。
下面有一段对话,我觉得,两个女孩子, 互相赞美得很自然。 我们来听听看,也听天天解析一下
Girl A: What do you think about this ?
你觉得这件衣服怎么养?
Girl B: Oh, that will look great on you, it will show off your nice legs
你穿肯定很好看,非常可以衬托你的长腿
Girl A:You don’t have to flatter me , i want to know the truth
你不用夸我啦,我知道我是啥样子啦
Girl B: I mean it! you always look so healthy and in shape. I wish i could be more like you
我真的就是这个意思哦,你看起来总是这么健康有形。我真希望我可以和你一样
Girl A:Come on, i am completely jealous of your eyes. They are so beautiful
嘿,我好羡慕你的眼睛哦,好漂亮
Girl B:I appreciate you saying that, but i know my looks aren’t my biggest asset
谢谢你这么说,但是我知道,我得外貌不是我最大的财富啦
Girl A:Well, i think you are pretty, and you also have a great personality . You are so funny and really light up the room with your laugh
我觉得你很美丽,然后你个性很好,你又有意思,你的笑声可以点燃整个房间
Girl B: you have those wonderful qualities too. Everyone admires you because you are so generous and kind
你有那么多好的品质。每个人都喜欢你,因为你人好又慷慨。