Saving Is a Rare Skill

Many so-called life coaches will tell you that: if a man loves a woman, he should spend as much money as possible on her without hesitation. Sadly, too many women believe in this. And that’s why their lives have been so miserable. Why? Because it ignores an essential question: where does money come from? At any given time, the total amount of money in this world is finite. If you use some money here, you won’t use it there. If you use some money to do this, you won’t use it to do that. So, any money should be spent wisely, no matter whether it’s a man’s money or a woman’s money. If you don’t do it, the money will finally go through the net of business to someone who knows how to do it. Yes, doing business is a form of saving. It’s spending your current resources in a smart way to bring you more resources. When you spend money as if it meant nothing to you, you’re not actually paying for a better life for yourself. You are just feeding your money to someone smarter than you. It’s totally easy to spend money. Everybody can do that. It’s not something you can show off. And there is nothing in it to be proud of. On the other hand, saving money is a rare skill.